“In” Jokes

We’ve been having fun with Ruby for her whole life, often finding amusement at her expense. She’d do something silly, clumsy, or weird and we’d laugh about it.

Now, things have risen to a whole new level – I often find myself sharing the joke with Ruby. One of us does something funny, and we both laugh together, sharing eye contact and a chuckle, enjoying the mutual moment. It’s so much more fulfilling to be laughing with her instead of just at her.

Granted, the jokes are pretty unsophisticated and mainly consist of funny faces and silly noises, but it still feels like substantial progress.

This one’s for Uncle Michael

Today, I printed out some pictures of far-away relatives for Ruby to see. One of them was my brother Michael (who lives in Singapore). Something about the phrase “Uncle Michael” tickled Ruby’s fancy and she repeated it, sort of. She kept saying it all day. I decided to capitalize on this and associate his picture with his name.

For her first birthday, Michael gave Ruby a book about airplanes. So, I printed a tiny picture of his face and added him to the first page:

Airplane book
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Then, I taped Ruby talking about it. The way she says “Uncle Michael” sounds like a cross between “taco” and “cuckoo”. Take a look…

New Carrier!

Now that I’m at home with Ruby, I realized it was time to buy a new child carrier. When Ruby was an infant, I liked both the Baby Bjorn and the Sidecar sling. Now that Ruby is bigger, though, she doesn’t fit in the Baby Bjorn and is too heavy to be supported by just one shoulder.

Faced with the prospect of hauling a stroller everywhere, I began asking people about the carriers they liked. This past weekend, Steve and I were on a getaway in Bellingham and came across a cool little store: Portable Kid. They specialize in carriers of all kinds (as well as car seats and a few other items). All of the carriers they sell are on display, and you can try them on. The owners and their kids are also happy to demonstrate.

We chose the Beco Baby Carrier in dark brown. It’s sort of like the Baby Bjorn, and it’s streamlined and as stylish as you can get with a hip strap (which isn’t too much, I know). It can carry kids up to about 40 pounds, so it’s a long-term purchase. After deciding on it, we bought it at Portable Kid, and I was pleased to support a new independent business.

Today, I took it out on its first test, wearing Ruby on my back (she can go on back, front, or hip in this carrier). It was great! All her weight was on my hips and I was very comfortable. I felt like I could walk with her for at least a few hours. It’s very exciting to have this option because I like to travel light (and strollers are not that). Ruby didn’t seem to mind riding behind me – she can just barely see over my shoulders. On the next outing, I’m going to try carrying her on my front and see how that compares.

So far, I’d highly recomend the Beco. It can carry young infants as well. It comes with a little “sleep hood” which supports their head when they fall asleep.

The Great Switcheroo

In case you haven’t heard, Steve and I have switched roles for a while. He’s back at work (working from home at the moment), and I am home full-time with Ruby (my last day at work was a week ago).

I’m very excited to experience this time in her life where she seems to be adding skills daily. I’m putting together a big list of places I want to explore with her, and trying to find her some more chances to socialize.

Things that fascinate Ruby:

  • birds
  • trucks and buses
  • airplanes
  • holes she can stick her finger in
  • hardware such as latches, hinges, handles, and knobs
  • opening and closing doors of all sizes
  • playing in sand

Things Ruby also likes:

  • bananas
  • shoes
  • music (mostly KEXP)
  • her Dim Sum book
  • the fish in our pond

Whee!

Yesterday, we found a plastic slide on Craigslist and got it for Ruby. She figured out how to climb the ladder in a few tries, and got more and more excited as she went up and down. Watch her having fun!

There are a bunch of new pictures in the photo album as well, including some from Easter. I particularly like this portrait of us: